
I don’t know about you guys, but I use social media a lot. A lot. For staying in touch with my friends and family all over the world, for gathering information, for meeting people pf like minds, and for work and networking.
When connecting with people I know IRL, it’s pretty easy for me to justify why I use Twitter, Facebook, and Google+. Of those three, Twitter is undoubtedly my most public voice: I hardly use FB any more and G+ is in it’s infancy. But it’s a little different with people I’ve met through networking. I’m not particularly interested in finding heaps of people to collaborate with, at least not right now. I’ve got a fantastic team and a full plate. I do love to support my webseries and local film community, though. So I follow a lot of people to keep up with their work, and I retweet them when I can.
But some of these folks are boring. So, so boring.
I don’t know about you, but when I work with people, if we’re colleagues, I like to know a little something about them personally. So I try to pay attention to folks’ interests, and pick things up. For instance, one of our favorite friends of the show loves coffee and has an adorable dog named Shyla. Another one, a single dad, always seems to be at the gym. Other run D&D games for their crew, watch horror movies, play Xbox, go to burlesque shows, eat at weird restaurants…and I love hearing about it. I love knowing that the people I “meet” online while I’m working are real folks. And knowing who they are makes it much more likely that I’ll pay attention to their stream…which makes it even more likely that I’ll want to support their projects, whether by retweeting them, following back, or donating money to their Kickstarter. An endless stream of links and self-promotion doesn’t do it for me: you have to be yourself, not just promote yourself.
Not everybody is going to do that, and I understand life is busy. But if you’re just programming your tweets with linkspam that directs me only to your website or IndieGogo page…yawn. Unfollow. I want my social media to be a little more social than that. I want a conversation, because apparently even with a hyper-social day gig and plenty of friends I don’t get enough talking.
That why I chose a picture of my GeekGirlCon tickets* to start this post: being on the Women in Webseries panel is completely a product of networking on Twitter during #webserieschat with some fantastic ladies. Getting to know them online has been a real pleasure. Meeting them in person will be even better.
How about you? Is social media a thing for you? How and why do you use it?
*Get your GGC tickets soon! They’re only $35 dollars for both days until August 1st, when the price goes up.